The Community That Will Empower You
Join the Allies Circle as a professional involved with services for women going through divorce.
If you are going through a divorce or considering filing for divorce, download our Guide to Empowered Divorce to take action in moving toward a Settlement Offer to end the divorce.
The Community That Will Transform You
The Accountability
Join us each week to share your progress in the divorce journey. Gain insight and support from other women in your situation.
The Sacred Space
Share your story in a way where you can gain insight and use the strategies with your current team. Ask the questions you are too afraid to ask your current team.
The Community of Women
Women guiding women. We have been through divorce with a toxic spouse or assist those in high-conflict divorce litigation and mediation.
The Successful Outcomes
We offer a Solution based process and guidance on Settlement Offers. This is the basis of our theory to Anchor the Deal with a full financial offer, parenting plan, valuations, appraisals and mortgage analysis to support the offer.
The Community That Will Transform Your Divorce
Why wait for someone to make the first offer? Take control of your divorce and create the settlement offer today. Download our template and get started immediately.
We guide you through the process of creating a list of assets and debts - a personal balance sheet - to negotiate a settlement in your own divorce. Whether you have decided to move forward - before you even hire an attorney - start to prepare for the process financially and emotionally.
The download includes access and license to an excel spreadsheet with a property statement to negotiate a settlement offer in writing. There are several video tutorials regarding Pro Se Divorce in Missouri and other states, how to use the spreadsheet with an example case study and the example case study in excel to see how the sheet works. All sales are final. No refunds.
If you need additional assistance or guidance, consider buying the book: Anchor the Deal, with strategies to negotiate your divorce settlement through the template.
Still need more guidance? Join The Divorce Allies Community today. $222 per month.
The Divorce Allies guides women through the process of creating a settlement offer, developing the parenting plan, negotiating with a narcissist or toxic spouse, developing a solution for the mortgage and housing situation. We provide Live "Circle" question and answer community session, which is available on recorded replay each week.
Weekly workshops and guidance directly from our experts LIVE every Wednesday!
The Support System That Will Empower You
Take the steps you need in the timing that works best for you. We know that if you focus on doing something each week and have an accountability partner, The Divorce Allies, you will achieve your desired outcome.
Create the ending to your Divorce Story. Work towards this aligned outcome.
Our goal is to empower you to create a Settlement Offer that provides you with a financial scenario or a reasonable offer to your spouse. The offer will optimize the assets and income to all people in the family, with the children as a central focus. The offer may include a parenting plan, summary valuations, appraisals, tracing analysis, income summaries, forensic tracing of missing money and guidance on all of these topics on a weekly basis. New experts will join our Podcast and provide insight on the legal, psychological, emotional, healing aspects of the Divorce Journey. Look for our Allies Circle Journal in 2025.
The Divorce Allies is a community of women guiding women through all stages of the divorce process. Our focus on mediation is about taking control of the Settlement Offer process and developing a SOLUTION for getting through your divorce without breaking the bank and spending years in the court system.
Join the Divorce Allies Today to gain access immediately to various guides and training modules, video workshops, Property Statement templates, income and expense budget models, guidance on alimony and child support, development of parenting plans, mortgage planning specialists to create options for your divorce.
100+
Hours of Video Workshops
60+
Hours of Live CIRCLE Recordings
$10k
Minimum Cost to Divorce in US
5+
Divorce Experts LIVE Each Week
Community Options
Basic Guide
$0
Download our guidebooks and workshops today.
Receive access to our book: Empowered Guide to Divorce.
Link to Private Facebook Group for access to deals and free resources, links to open workshops.
Receive access to the first week of the settlement offer basics
Booking Links for All Experts
Discount code for Template.
Get Started - Template
$99
Property Statement Excel Template
(GoogleSheets avail upon request)
Various Video Tutorials
Pro Se Divorce Filing Examples,
How to Negotiate with the Spreadsheet.
Sample of the "Circle" Meeting.
Discount on The Divorce Allies Community Membership 1st Month.
Join The Divorce Allies
$222
Live "Circle" Meetings Each Week
Ask questions about your specific situation - in a confidential manner
(Receive a Sample of the Live "Circle" with Template.)
Join a community of other women going through the process of divorce.
Become the HERo of your Divorce Journey.
The Director of your Divorce Story.
The Community That Will Uplift You
House and Kids (Income, Alimony & Child Support)
Gain insight and negotiation tools regarding the house and kids. Understand the impact of decisions and checklists for parenting plan templates. Receive support in the weekly Live meetings, supporting comments from others going through the same struggles with coercive control, financial abuse, parental alienation and share encouragement for others who are struggling through the process.
Negotiation & Empowerment when Divorcing a Narcissist or Toxic Spouse
Work with our Narcissistic Coaching team to understand how to regulate your nervous system and balance your emotions as you prepare to negotiate with a toxic spouse in mediation.
Even if you are in the middle of divorce litigation, Victoria McCooey has practical tips on healing from attachment styles and trauma bonds, in order to negotiate your best settlement offer. Understanding your options and having informed
Thanks for your guidance in the Circle. I was able to use the knowledge and provide an offer to my spouse. It wasn't easy, but I did it. I followed the steps and was able to do most of the negotiating on my own. I sought the advice from the Circle each week as the divorce moved forward. The strategies made all the difference. The emotional support of the group was worth even more than the financial advice.
Windy City - Client Success Story
I received support needed to make the first move and file for divorce. I was able to break free from the coercive control and receive a default judgement in my state. Thanks to the support in the Circle of expert women who know how to deal with toxic situations involving abuse and addiction issues.
Be Calm - Empowered Success Story